I get the fact that everything in life is a process, I just don't understand why some take sooooo much longer than others. I get the fact that patience is a virtue so is all the other things like wisdom, self control etc but all those does not make me feel better...not on the inside. I know, I know what you are thinking, don't worry Adele everything will work out, yip that much I can tell myself too. It is always easier to criticize from the outside, looking at other people and telling them what you see wrong right. I know that cause I do that too. Tell me how do you get rid of the fear, that intense fear in your deep insides, the what ifs? It is easy to say to not think like that, but I have tried and it sometimes just don't work and hearing that from someone else does not make me feel any better. Tell me something I don't know!

Do I cross the bridge only when I get there or does that place me in a situation where I might be unprepared?

So anyway, yesterday while shopping we took someone else's cart without realizing it. We only realized when we were standing in the dairy isle and dad asked me if I put the broccoli in the cart. So I looked down and said nope, neither did I put the oranges and weird carrots in...so we looked up at each other and started laughing. Dad got all red in the face and started taking out the last stuff we put in all the way back to the nuts. So we turned around walking back still laughing out loud by this time looking for our cart. I left the cart and dad went to look around the corner back in the nuts isle and found our cart still right there where he left it! So he looks at me and says "bring back that other cart (laughing and all red)" so by this time I am almost wetting myself and said no way dude you took the wrong cart. So we continued shopping and laughing and wondering what the poor other person must have felt like when they turned around and there cart was gone ( I mean it would be a good prank but it so was not intentional, I almost want to do it intentional now just to see someones reaction!).